Thoughts on Coaching and Change

Most of us spent a long time, often without realising it, learning to want the right things. The things that made sense. The things other people approved of. And we got so good at it that somewhere along the way, the gap between what we actually want and what we think we should want closed.

It is one of the questions people feel most embarrassed to admit they do not know the answer to. You have a job, a routine, a life that functions. And somewhere in the middle of all of that, the question of what you actually want has gone quiet.